Podcast
Join me, attorney Abbie Godles, for my podcast, “Mind Your P’s and Q’s,” where I share helpful information and practical tips on navigating Arizona divorce and custody, offering insight on out-of-court solutions and litigation. New episodes release odd Wednesdays at 10 am on all major platforms. Or subscribe to my newsletter to have new episodes delivered directly to your inbox!
Ep. 83 - Why “Fair” Beats “Victory” Every Time - Mind Your P's and Q's
When your marriage is ending, your gut says “I want to win.” But here’s the truth: chasing victory in family court will cost you tens of thousands of dollars, years of your life, and your kids’ peace of mind—all to get roughly the same outcome you could’ve reached in mediation. In this episode, I’m breaking down why “fair” isn’t about being nice to your ex—it’s about saving your money, your sanity, and your future. Fair doesn’t feel as good as winning, but it’s the only thing that actually works.--Newsletter: https://mymm.substack.com/Website: www.modernlegalsolutions.comInstagram: @modernlegalsolutionsFacebook: www.facebook.com/mindyourmannersmediation/LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/company/mind-your-manners-mediation--CreditsIntro and Outro Music: “Motivational Day” by AudioCoffee, available under the Pixabay LicenseRecording and Editing Software: Audacity® software is copyright © 1999-2021 Audacity Team. The name Audacity® is a registered trademark. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit mymm.substack.com
- Ep. 83 - Why “Fair” Beats “Victory” Every Time
- Ep. 82 - The Cost of Being Right
- Ep. 81 - Mediation Requires Equal Participation
- Ep. 80 - You're Not a “We” Anymore
- Ep. 79 - Co-Parenting After DV
- Ep. 78 - Tech-Facilitated Abuse
- Ep. 77 - Navigating DV and AI
- Ep. 76 - Legal Fundamental - 2025 Spousal Maintenance Updates
- Ep. 75 - AFCC Model Standards for Mediation
- Ep. 74 - Navigating High-Conflict Cases
Guest Appearances
My guest appearances are uploaded in reverse chronological order so you can easily find recent appearances first.
